Dating not answering phone
I could go on and on describing the variety of things women have expressed to me when talking about their relationships and how they deal with a man who stops calling (or in other cases texting, but I have covered texting in so many articles I’m not going to go into that here).when you have a conversation with him, do not come from a place of blaming but rather one of understanding. I am not saying this to be rude or make an assumption; I just know how truly overwhelming it can be when you are in this kind of a position, wanting someone to do something that means something to you only to be left hanging, kind of in this limbo of trying to get an understanding of what is going on and where to go from here.
You love speaking over the phone, but the man in your life can’t dream of doing the same.So you really do not know the outcome unless you call.In general, if you just met or are in the beginning stages and he is not calling it is normally not the best of signs but is definitely not the worst, unless you have already called him with zero response and total radio silence.Come from a place of listening, without any judgment or expectations of what he should or should not say to you.Do not go in assuming whereas if you assume the best, you give yourself the best shot of things working out in your favor. come to the conversation from the kind of mental state I described and you will be able to truly get some kind of understanding into what is going on with him, what he feels about what you have and where to go from there. If he stopped calling because he isn’t interested anymore, at least you will know and not have to sit wondering and waiting.
So what is the real reason behind why men hate talking on the phone? Is it because you forgot to pay your bills on time, or is your cell phone low on battery, or are you way too tired to even take your heels off before you hit the sack? You didn’t call because you didn’t want to, which is the bottom line. From my conclusion, I guess there’s no real difference in phone etiquette when it comes to men and women, we just have different perspectives.